You may not ask a bridal party member to lose weight, cut/dye their hair, or get a tan. You picked this person to be in your wedding because they are close to you. Because they are good friends. Because you love them. Because you want them to be there on your special day. Their appearance is a nonissue – especially since they're already wearing a dress of your choice. Asking for more permanent changes in appearance doesn't just make you a bridezilla, it makes you a fucking bitch.
I was at a wedding last week where the bride screamed at one of her bridesmaids to wear her hair up... oh MY! people are crazy!
Keep it up~
Posted by: Jenny | Thursday, March 23, 2006 at 10:57 AM
don't hold back now. tell us how you really feel.
;-)
Posted by: Keren | Thursday, March 23, 2006 at 05:38 PM
Thanks, Jenny and Keren! Sometimes brides can get scary. No, really, they can.
Posted by: Bridehood | Wednesday, March 29, 2006 at 04:55 PM